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Lena
#1 Posted : Thursday, December 17, 2009 2:31:09 AM
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Question. May be somebody has been in the same situation and can give some advise.. To cut a long story short – I’m 29 and I want to start my life from the very beginning.. I mean to go some place, where nobody knows me, where I can be not as the OTHERS expect, but the one I want and feel like.. I’ve changed a number of jobs during my life – teacher, secretary, beauty consultant, sale’s manager, tourist manager... and now have to make another choice – again change a job. And the problem is – I really don’t feel WHAT exactly I need, I want.. Really those who knows 100% what to do with their lives are lucky..  and one more thing – I’ve recently got divorced. That also adds some sort of mess to my present life. But any way – all changes are for the best. How you think, may be I should close my eyes, take the first job (I can handle) and I leave to view new horizons??  

 

 

katarina_s
#2 Posted : Thursday, December 17, 2009 2:34:40 AM
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I know that feeling. A great desire to do sth with your life, but no idea – in what direction to move.. so, dear, for sure , u’re not the one with the same problem. But I found the way, may be what I say can help u.

First of all – think positive, no matter how difficult that may seem to u, always try to pick out good details out of events that you run through. Don’t drive yourself crazy with clouds - but be able to see sky and sun behind them. I see u’re on the right way - “But any way – all changes are for the best.” And of course  no need to move forward with your eyes closed. Stop thinking about what to do and where to go- relax for a while, make a short vocation, and the answer will come to you easily – as if u’ve been keeping it in your head all the time…

good luck to you in your new life!  

 

mark
#3 Posted : Thursday, December 17, 2009 2:37:30 AM
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29 and don’t know – what job to choose?? Ha! You won't know who you are until you hit 50 and then probably there will still be questions. Always there are questions – it’s normal and GOOD! If a person is searching for best, for changes, for new – means he\she’s REAL, alive. We have intellect and we must use it!

Just live your life with courage, staying healthy and taking care of the cash, doing the best for others that you can and being involved in whatever you so. All successful people are generous with time, money and advice. All losers are mean, stingy and suspicious.

And what about choosing a job – really what you like most?? If you really like people maybe start in sales. But don't start with a dead end job. Once you do that you will find it hard to escape. If you're pretty and stylish with a bit of charisma it's easy for a woman to find something in the conference or corporate events business, for example. Or you could try HR, get a qualification while working and go into training.

There's so much variety out there that you can't know until you try!!!

 

Lena
#4 Posted : Thursday, December 17, 2009 3:21:39 AM
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tnks! really helpful

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